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The quest to win back your ex girlfriend takes time and is not a given, Planning to win her back is the best strategy and like any good project (hate to put it like that – but I’m afraid it really is like that) – you need a plan. Below are some age old structured methods to help you to win your ex girlfriend back today and regain her interest in your relationship:

The first mistake we make when trying to win your ex girlfriend back is to smother her. Best advice is to stay away and reduce communication with her. I know that this is easier said than done but she will need time and so do you.

Using electronic communication can be a good way to ease your mind and win the heart of your ex girlfriend back, You can send simple messages asking her about her well being and if there is some event she was attending – you can see if she enjoyed it. It shows that she is still in your mind. Don’t go heavy and certainly don’t be confrontational.

Your confidence will have been dented and you will need time to re-build. Some guys go to the extreme and try to cure their pain by jumping straight back into a relationship with some one else. This is will make it nearly impossible to win your ex girlfriend back in the short term and is ill-advised.

Your ex girlfriend may have cut off all communication with you in the short-term and has probably put some of your friends in an awkward positions as well. If they know you are serious about winning your ex girlfriend back, they will be willing to help you (both). Positive messages that you still care can be relayed back via friends so your ex girlfriend still know you are interested.

In reality there is no rule book on how to win your ex girlfriend back but there are certain items that you should avoid as we outline above. Naturally, you will reach out to friends during this time but feel free to look to the internet community also for advice, help and reviews of where to best look for books.