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Internet dating veterans love online dating for a number of reasons not the least of which is the sheer number of singles on dating sites. That first face to face though can be a bit nerve wracking. But being the experienced dater that you are, you know how to put a brave face on. So what do you do if your date is not quite so savvy? Read the rest of this entry »

There's no point in writing off perfectly good dates because they aren't, well, perfect. To my mind, honest imperfection is far more preferable to falsified flawlessness; when I date someone I expect honesty, warts and all. In the spirit of dating open mindedness, here are some common first impression blunders that you should think about forgiving. Read the rest of this entry »

Have you ever known a woman who would ditch her friends for a man? For example: On Monday, she would make plans to go with you to an exhibit and by Friday, the plans were altered because the new guy she met on an internet dating site just happened to call. Being the friend that you are, you always seem to understand and say that it is no big deal. Read the rest of this entry »

Whenever I break off a relationship I go into a "they don't exist anymore" mode for a while. This gives me the time I need to cry, eat chocolate and gain weight, lose that weight, cry some more and curse them to hell and back. Then and only then can I make peace with the pig, err, I mean, that wonderful person who I don't want anymore. Read the rest of this entry »

There are a lot of questions that come with dating: what to wear, where to go, who pays for what (who knows anymore?)its endless, really, and exhausting. Just going through to steps to get to the place where you start legitimately wondering whether or not to sleep with someone, and how soon, is daunting. Read the rest of this entry »

Whether your long term relationship crashed and burned or just stalled and failed, it's painful. As tempting as it is to drown your sorrows in a bottle of wine, dwelling on it won't make the pain go away. If anything it'll make it worse. Read the rest of this entry »